The practice of throwing rice is rooted in ancient pagan fertility symbolism and is therefore strongly discouraged. Substituting confetti
Can we have a candle light wedding?
Yes, with the permission of the pastor.
Is it OK to have a runner at the wedding ceremony?
This is dependent upon the local parish church. During the Middle Ages, it was widely believed that evil spirits
Why doesn’t the priest/deacon say, “You may kiss the bride” during Catholic weddings?
“Kissing the bride” is not part of the Rite of Marriage so it may not be said.
Do I have to bring flowers to the Blessed Mother?
No. Presenting flowers to the Blessed Mother is not a part of the Marriage Rite. One suggestion is to
Can we change any of the words in the vows that are found in the Rite of Marriage?
No. To do so would call into question the validity of the sacrament of marriage.
Can my priest give me my vows and my fiancée’s minister give her hers?
No. To emphasize the unity of marriage, it is not permitted to have two exchanges of consent and vows
Do we both have to give/receive wedding rings that day of the ceremony?
If circumstances so require, the blessing and exchange of rings can be omitted (Rite of Marriage #62) However, if
Why doesn’t the priest/deacon say?
“By the power invested in me by the State of New Jersey, I now pronounce you man and
Can we write our own petitions? Is there a form for doing that?
Yes, you may write your own petitions. Your priest or deacon can help you.In the general intercessions, or prayer