I’ve seen it in my friend’s protestant church. No. Centuries ago, marriages were political, social, and economic unions
Do we have to give the priest/ deacon something as a thank you after the wedding?
Though it is not required to give your priest/deacon anything as a thank you for helping to prepare
Do we give anything to the altar servers who assist at our wedding ceremony?
Yes, the servers are giving of their free time so be generous. Some churches include this in their fees,
How can my fiancé’s minister participate in the Mass? Can she concelebrate with the priest?
There are three issues to be addressed in this instance. First, only a validly ordained priest in the Catholic
My uncle is a permanent deacon; can he participate in the ceremony? Can he give us our vows?
Yes. A permanent deacon can assist at the Nuptial Mass as he would at any other Mass. He can
Can we still receive Holy Communion if a deacon is celebrating our wedding ceremony?
Yes, there can still be a celebration of the Eucharist during a Marriage Ceremony with a deacon, outside
Can my aunt, a Eucharistic minister at her parish, participate as minister at our wedding Mass?
If a person is an Extraordinary Minister in another parish, it is the pastor’s or presider at the
Can my 10-year-old niece be my maid of honor?
Yes. According to The Code of Canon Law, unlike sponsors at Baptism (Canon 872) and Confirmation (Canon 892), the
Do the best man and maid of honor need to be Catholic?
Neither the best man nor the maid of honor needs to be Catholic. This is one instance where they
Can I have a maid and matron of honor (or two best men)?
You can have anyone past the age of reason for your witnesses. It may be two women or
